After a certain age if a person is not married

There is always fear of loneliness and shame to be lonely

Loneliness is sufferings in silence

Consolation is that he does not have emotional burdens

And the burden of feeding and taking care of the family

When he looks at a happy family

There is always a wish, how beautiful if he has a family too

Many will look for places to search for one

Many will pray to have one

For those who have a family and not a happy one

Sometimes will want to get out of it

So when we look at it

Those who do not have it, want to have it

Those who have it, want to get out of it

There are many reasons for loneliness

From physical appearance to the way a person talks

You have to work and earn a partner

But sometimes no matter how hard a person tries

He will still be lonely until the day he dies

This is something to do with the past

The seen and the unseen past

The cause and effect indicates that

If we selfishly take away people’s spouse

The future or the next life

One will live a lonely life

With this realization

It is hoped that to avoid loneliness

Undo the wrong, repent and work towards righteousness

Any mistake done is done

May God have mercy if one repents

And take away the loneliness

You may be always alone

But never lonely.

In the cultivation of Tao

We can be lonely at times but must keep on going

This is a poem from JiGong:

"You are a lonely boat in the bitter sea of life

I am (the teacher) the clear wind on the sea

How I wish I could twine around you day and night

Pushing you and protecting you to go forward

Going forward!"

If we are lonely because of Tao

It has great meaning

If not, then it is sufferings.